dispelyell replied to your post: I’m sorry guys. I’m taking a break from this…
Do what you need to do. I really, REALLY hope your friend pulls through. *hugs* You have my support and love.
Thank you. But like I said, please keep sending her love. I seriously…this is the only thing I want right now. I want as many people as I can get to send her love. As many people. Please?
Oh my God, that’s horrible ;A; I hope your friend’s okay ;w; Take as long as you need, dear.
Thank you. She’s in the hospital right now, so that’s the best thing I could hope for. My last request for before I leave, please, please, please go send her some love, so that if she comes back, that’s what she comes back to? Please?
I’m sorry guys. I’m taking a break from this account. I don’t know if I’ll be back, and I don’t now when I’ll be back if I do, but I…I can’t do this right now.
I almost lost someone to suicide today, my friend, and I just…I can’t do this. I need a brake from all this.
I’m so, so sorry. I really am.
This is one of my friends you guys. Please go send as much as you can. Please.
| Hey, I have a follower, her name is Sophie. She goes by the URL hollow-wrists. I'm not sure how late I am, I think only a few hours, but I just read her last notes in one of her pages. She's been suicidal for a long time, and she just got out of the hospital from a failed attempt... She needs some encouraging messages... I'm not sure how close to the edge she is. I think she might attempt to take her life soon, again. Please help. | |
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dispelyell |
I’m on it. Everyone else who sees this, please send your love as well.
| do you have any tips on how to tell your parents that you are depressed? I just feel terrible and I feel worse when I think about going to talk to them because my dad suffers from depression too. I don't want to make him feel worse or make my parents think it is their fault. I also don't feel comfortable talking to any friends... thanks... | |
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First and foremost, let me tell you how much I love you. And if you ever need some love or someone to talk with, I’m always here. Of course, this is not me trying to get you to come off of anon. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
Alright, now to what you were asking. I have personally had to tell my parents that I was depressed, so I can tell you that I definitely know how…scary it might be. As with every time I give advice, I can’t promise 100% how it’ll turn out. That’s all up to you and your parents.
I feel like you should simply sit them down, one parent or both, again, whatever allows you to feel more comfortable, and tell them. Your dad should understand, if he’s depressed as well. If your really afraid of making them/him feel worse, and that you don’t want them to think it’s their fault, make sure you tell them that.
Another thing, Be prepared for questions. Most parents aren’t going to hear “I think I’m depressed,” and respond with just “oh, okay.” You need to be prepared for them to ask “why?” It’s alright if your not really sure yourself, but make sure that you really get this across to them.
If you don’t feel comfortable telling your parents face to face, you could always have someone you trust tell them, a teacher, or a friend, or a pastor, or just someone. Or you can even write them a letter. It can really help, and sometimes be easier than having to tell them yourself. Trust me.
Don’t lie to your parents. If you start to tell them and they don’t react in a receptive manner, don’t immediately respond by backtracking over everything you just said. Commit! You need help, and they are in the position to be sure you get it.
I really hope that at least some of this helps you, love. I wish I could do more for you. You’re still always free to talk to me if you wish. I wish you the best.
| ((Hey I just wanted to say I freaking love this blog. Whenever I see people getting anon hate I immediately stop whatever I'm doing and send them anon love. Which is why I love your cause. So thank you :) )) | |
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alexis-dream-tail |
No. Thank you. Keep sending people love, and keep being you.
I used my veeeerry limited artistic skills, and made you all something!
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I don’t really know what I was doing either. Oh well!
| I know what you're trying to do, and it's really great, but... your URL just makes me think of a 13 year old/creepy dude in a chat room who's trying to find someone to date online. Just... thought you should know that XD | |
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Anonymous |
…I feel like I should be offended…
But I’ll just have you know that that is most defiantly not the case. In all honestly, this started out as a joke between someone that I was trying to help as an actually anon and myself. Well, kinda. I mean I was serious about the whole intentions of it, but the whole “love-anon” name started as a joke.And over time, It’s just become a thing.
I have no interest in “dating” anyone online. I’m not 13, nor am I a “creepy dude.”
I talk people out of suicide. I help people. And I make people smile. And at the end of the day, that’s all I can really ask for.
“I don’t know you, but out of all the messages, this message and your blog probably helped me the most. Thank you for creating your blog and thank you for existing.”
And then they said this:
“I have bookmarked your page so I will be appearing from time to time. I hope to get to know you better soon because I really do love you.”
And I’m just sitting here like this:
Seriously, guys. Go send love. Anything.
